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I find that a lot of people can't tell the difference between what's meant to be constructive criticism and an insult.
by xenoterracide 18y ago
I find that a lot of people can't tell the difference between what's meant to be constructive criticism and an insult.
- critic 18y agoI agree. Indeed, if you criticize the choices a professional made in his area of expertise, you are often criticizing their competence and/or intelligence by implication. Often, the right target for criticism is supposed to be the person himself. For example, if someone without the right domain knowledge or understanding of math deluded himself into thinking he knows enough and starts messing things up, you really don't want to help him along. Imagine some VB noob "fixing" your mission-critical Lisp code, saying it would have been easier if it was all ported to .NET or something. Dealing with all these situations in the best way possible requires a lot of finesse, I'm sure. I just noticed, in retrospect, that such a blunt approach as not giving any criticism ever is STILL better (for me, not my employer necessarily) than what I was doing.
- arockwell 18y agoI run into this problem all the time. As hard as I try to be diplomatic whoever I am trying to give constructive criticism is insulted. It doesn't help that I'm usually trying to give criticism to my boss, but still (at the jobs I've held I have had very few colleagues other than my direct boss).