> spent the whole time trashing me The real danger comes when this pattern meets underlying trauma or personality issues - the manipulation becomes a way to pr

> spent the whole time trashing me The real danger comes when this pattern meets underlying trauma or personality issues - the manipulation becomes a way to process or control rather than connect, while the constant desire from others makes it feel justified or even righteous. This isn't about relationship styles - it's about recognizing when multiple connections are being used as tools for manipulation rather than genuine human bonds.