> After she told me she wanted to be with me for life? I had hoped the poly issue was going to be in the past You hopefully learned that girls lie, like to avo

> After she told me she wanted to be with me for life? I had hoped the poly issue was going to be in the past You hopefully learned that girls lie, like to avoid conflict and keep their options open. Once you accept these 3 facts they become much easier to understand. Guys care less about point 2. Only judge someone by their actions, not words. And your gf fucking other people is a pretty clear statement of her feelings for you and her intention for your future.