The way that my friends have described it. Neither of them are actively looking, going to events, on apps, etc. But if an opportunity presents itself with a f

The way that my friends have described it. Neither of them are actively looking, going to events, on apps, etc. But if an opportunity presents itself with a friend or whatever they have already established that it’s fine. It’s still open, but it seems the difference is seeking it out vs it just happening.