when my parents separated (and then divorced) and we moved, i thought it was the best thing that we moved so far away that they just could not meet and thus cou

when my parents separated (and then divorced) and we moved, i thought it was the best thing that we moved so far away that they just could not meet and thus could not fight anymore. that was my feeling as a 12 year old. forget shared responsibility and kids alternating between both parents. in our case that would have been a disaster and the opposite of a stable living situation for us children.