I deal with it by spreading hate of my own. When I read a comment that indirectly insults me (by insulting a group I identify with), I pay it forward by craftin

I deal with it by spreading hate of my own. When I read a comment that indirectly insults me (by insulting a group I identify with), I pay it forward by crafting something designed to trigger the other group. Often in an altogether different venue. Hope it helps.