I am in this camp. I have been to the funerals of loved ones and once helped arrange one for a close family member. It was a very stressful affair. But I als

I am in this camp. I have been to the funerals of loved ones and once helped arrange one for a close family member. It was a very stressful affair. But I also recognize that other people got more out of it than did I. They cried and hugged and shared memories. That experience I am assuming was very valuable to them. But not to me. I was stressed the entire time. The lesson I learned was that funerals are valuable to some while not others.