Thats absolutely true, but people who don't like that tend to also be the people with painfully limited introspection and who are generally not worth talking to

Thats absolutely true, but people who don't like that tend to also be the people with painfully limited introspection and who are generally not worth talking too much with. And if you do need to do that for work functions or something, you don't have to disclose that you are just doing how to win friends and influence people.