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> he just behaved the worst he's ever behaved in daycare today I'm sorry, maybe it's not my place, but... Please listen to him. Children are not stupid, they j
by bornfreddy 2y ago
> he just behaved the worst he's ever behaved in daycare today
I'm sorry, maybe it's not my place, but... Please listen to him. Children are not stupid, they just lack experience. If he behaves some way then there is a reason for it. The usual suspect is lack of attention (which is very important for a child), since they get more of it (even if in form of punishment) for behaving "badly"... The outcome is predictable.
I found that treating them as adults when it comes to respecting their wishes goes a long way towards raising a good person.
Again, sorry for an unsolicited advice from a random person on the internet. Especially as it sounds like life is very stressful for you right now. Fingers crossed everything gets better soon.
- Clubber 2y agoThis. I recall both my mother, my wife and my daughter telling me they would get in trouble when they were younger because they wanted attention.
- pmarreck 2y agoWe already do that, but maybe even more is necessary. The problem is that I'm 52 and already had sleep apnea/CPAP, she is 49, and my son is 3. Every day is an exhausting marathon.
- bornfreddy 2y agoI understand, and I know that for each person the circumstances are different. I hope you are both able to find the strength to just - be with him. I wish you all the best!