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> my specific point is that he does not sound like he needs to make hard choices Some people are just like that. I've been in similar moments (financially) as

> my specific point is that he does not sound like he needs to make hard choices Some people are just like that. I've been in similar moments (financially) as that guy, and as weird as it sounds, I was laughing at it. lol I don't think me or him are immune to anxiety by any means, but that our triggers are probably different.

jiggunjer 2y ago
Same. Mildy curious about the homeless life, just paid the last rent I could afford when I found a job. The main concern at the time was worrying my parents.
theendisney4 2y ago
I also thought it was funny, because it is if you have enough self confidence. I had an agenda with 2-3 weeks worth of planning to stay with friends and aquaintances. I would never stay at the same place for more than 1 night. The friends would tollerate it for 2 weeks or 2 months but if i limit the visit to 1 day per week, 2 weeks or a month their patience would never run out. The deal was this: you pay for shopping i clean the kitchen entirely, i Cook an elaborate meal, clean the kitchen again, sleep and leave at 8 am. The funniest were the ones who chose to abuse the deal and turned their kitchen into a giant mess. They pretty much didnt do anything for 14 days. I vaguely knew them, we didnt get along so well but i was excited to see the mess. This looks very welcomming! I joked. Some also ordered elaborate fancy 3 course meals that took some doing. They would enjoy the elaborate candle light dinner together after a day of hard work while i slaved away in their kitchen. Fucking hilarious.
- jliptzin 2y ago
  Can you elaborate?
  - theendisney4 2y ago
    Which part? The hosts often got the better end of the deal. Today i would much enjoy a monthly elaborate dinner with my girl in exchange for 1x using a bed in a spare room i never use. Renting it out for a day for $ to a stranger is not going to happen but if it did it wouldnt cover the cost for professional cleaning plus a private cook. I also had friends who never cook and ones who barely clean. I did whole office buildings, vacuuming a livingroom is not going to impress me.
    - meiraleal 2y ago
      I couldn't understand. Did you do it to bond with your friends or to save money?
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      - elbear 2y ago
        Sounds like he did it so he could have a place to stay
- ppcdeveloper 2y ago
  I think you have a lot of movie/book material. I would watch this play out.
hn_throwaway_99 2y ago
Ok, there are some comments like this one and a few others that seem to be focused on his apparent lack of anxiety, or that I'm calling him out for being "privileged". I'm primarily calling him out because his story, as written, simply makes no sense, because reality. He has no money left, and is making less money than his next rent payment, but he is talking about continuing on in the next year doing the same things he did in previous years. Except in previous years he started with 80k, and this year he's starting with 0. I'm really not particularly interested in his anxiety triggers, I'm interested in where he will be getting money for his next rent payment. There are literally only a couple options: he's got backup support somewhere that will provide him with funds/housing/food, he plans to get some "day jobs" to fund his lifestyle (which would then severely limit his entrepreneurial time), or he plans to just ride out the eviction process where he's currently renting until being homeless. One of these must be true, and I think it's a pretty critical part of his story that he just leaves out.
- necovek 2y ago
  There is also the option that he paid a year worth of rent in advance, which emptied his bank account, and now he has no liquidity, but has a place to stay for the next 12 months. But you are right that this is not clarified anywhere in the post, and the math as described does not add up.
- gr4vityWall 2y ago
  I don't have anything to add to that discussion itself, but I believe people thought you were talking about how he sounded because of this line: > my specific point is that he does not sound like he needs to make hard choices Then, a subset of those people (myself included) replied saying they wouldn't sound much different in a similar situation. Maybe you can send your question to the author if they have a contact form/email on their website.

jiggunjer 2y ago

Same. Mildy curious about the homeless life, just paid the last rent I could afford when I found a job. The main concern at the time was worrying my parents.

theendisney4 2y ago

I also thought it was funny, because it is if you have enough self confidence. I had an agenda with 2-3 weeks worth of planning to stay with friends and aquaintances. I would never stay at the same place for more than 1 night. The friends would tollerate it for 2 weeks or 2 months but if i limit the visit to 1 day per week, 2 weeks or a month their patience would never run out. The deal was this: you pay for shopping i clean the kitchen entirely, i Cook an elaborate meal, clean the kitchen again, sleep and leave at 8 am. The funniest were the ones who chose to abuse the deal and turned their kitchen into a giant mess. They pretty much didnt do anything for 14 days. I vaguely knew them, we didnt get along so well but i was excited to see the mess. This looks very welcomming! I joked. Some also ordered elaborate fancy 3 course meals that took some doing. They would enjoy the elaborate candle light dinner together after a day of hard work while i slaved away in their kitchen. Fucking hilarious.

jliptzin 2y ago
Can you elaborate?
- theendisney4 2y ago
  Which part? The hosts often got the better end of the deal. Today i would much enjoy a monthly elaborate dinner with my girl in exchange for 1x using a bed in a spare room i never use. Renting it out for a day for $ to a stranger is not going to happen but if it did it wouldnt cover the cost for professional cleaning plus a private cook. I also had friends who never cook and ones who barely clean. I did whole office buildings, vacuuming a livingroom is not going to impress me.
  - meiraleal 2y ago
    I couldn't understand. Did you do it to bond with your friends or to save money?
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    - elbear 2y ago
      Sounds like he did it so he could have a place to stay
ppcdeveloper 2y ago
I think you have a lot of movie/book material. I would watch this play out.

hn_throwaway_99 2y ago

Ok, there are some comments like this one and a few others that seem to be focused on his apparent lack of anxiety, or that I'm calling him out for being "privileged". I'm primarily calling him out because his story, as written, simply makes no sense, because reality. He has no money left, and is making less money than his next rent payment, but he is talking about continuing on in the next year doing the same things he did in previous years. Except in previous years he started with 80k, and this year he's starting with 0. I'm really not particularly interested in his anxiety triggers, I'm interested in where he will be getting money for his next rent payment. There are literally only a couple options: he's got backup support somewhere that will provide him with funds/housing/food, he plans to get some "day jobs" to fund his lifestyle (which would then severely limit his entrepreneurial time), or he plans to just ride out the eviction process where he's currently renting until being homeless. One of these must be true, and I think it's a pretty critical part of his story that he just leaves out.

necovek 2y ago
There is also the option that he paid a year worth of rent in advance, which emptied his bank account, and now he has no liquidity, but has a place to stay for the next 12 months. But you are right that this is not clarified anywhere in the post, and the math as described does not add up.
gr4vityWall 2y ago
I don't have anything to add to that discussion itself, but I believe people thought you were talking about how he sounded because of this line: > my specific point is that he does not sound like he needs to make hard choices Then, a subset of those people (myself included) replied saying they wouldn't sound much different in a similar situation. Maybe you can send your question to the author if they have a contact form/email on their website.