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I think it also comes down to relationships. I would personally be extremely content living a very spartan life. If there were a barracks type arrangement whe

I think it also comes down to relationships. I would personally be extremely content living a very spartan life. If there were a barracks type arrangement where I just get a small room with desk and bathroom, and all food preparation were handled for me for a reasonable fee, access to a gym, and solid internet I'd be all over it. But the minute you enter a romantic relationship, that generally stops being an acceptable living situation.

purplethinking 2y ago
Why is there such a difference between men and women on this? I literally lived in a closet as a student. I'm quite content as long as I have a nice desk and chair, good internet, access to a gym and perhaps afford to eat out.
- dennis_jeeves2 2y ago
  >Why is there such a difference between men and women on this? Biological answer: women had to hold on to resources to care for their ofspring, so it's hardwired. Politically incorrect answer: they are self entitled nutcases. If you think you are spending significantly more than what you think you can afford, dump your wife if she doesn't agree to downgrade on the lifestyle to save on expenses
  - purplethinking 2y ago
    That escalated quickly! I think biology has probably shaped us to worry about different things. As you say, I think it's probably that women look for a mate that can provide a good environment for raising kids. There's also the status aspect. Men are also status sensitive but it seems like they are much more willing to sacrifice status short term in order to focus on work and earning money long term, while women want a nice house etc no matter what, and it's up to the man to provide.