and if someone is veering very strongly onto one side to the detriment of another, we get pathologies. like people who can never stay with themselves without gr

and if someone is veering very strongly onto one side to the detriment of another, we get pathologies. like people who can never stay with themselves without great despair or make a decision of their own, or incels and racists who are thoroughly incapable of fitting into their world the autonomy of the object, building their life around the idea of subjecting it to their will.