This is important because Debain-family is used on many servers? Debian seems to just squander resources on things a few powerful people care about. All my se

This is important because Debain-family is used on many servers? Debian seems to just squander resources on things a few powerful people care about. All my servers have been Debian-based, so I can't be too hard on them, but whenever I see someone recommend a Debian-family distro as a Desktop OS, I feel like I need to call the police.