"The reason I say this is because even I cannot tell tell the difference" Then you are acting natural. I mean cold calculated attempts to bond to benefit. And

"The reason I say this is because even I cannot tell tell the difference" Then you are acting natural. I mean cold calculated attempts to bond to benefit. And nice empty small talk as an art to get there. This is the small talk I mean and don't like. Talking about small things in a fun way I enjoy