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It's not that I don’t want my private life to seep into work, it's that I don't want work to seep into my private life. So I don't need friends that are also c
by spiderfarmer 2y ago
It's not that I don’t want my private life to seep into work, it's that I don't want work to seep into my private life.
So I don't need friends that are also colleagues or clients. I already have great friends. I'm a great colleague in every way possible, but I never feel the need to be anything more than that.
For most people work / life balance is already tipping towards work. They want it to be the other way around.
- chefandy 2y agoWhen I've gotten friend from a job they stopped being mentally classified as a coworkers and started being classified as a friend I met at work. Aside from random bullshitting about shared experiences or whatever, I rarely felt compelled to discuss work with them any more than I did with other friends, and they can be really great at giving frank feedback when other coworkers might not have the guts. Unless there's a boss/subordinate relationship or a romantic connection, I've never seen or experienced any real problems or drama spring from workplace friendships.
- bravetraveler 2y agoI don't even have that many real 'friends' (non-colleagues/family)... and I still agree. Separate is best - even if that means one side suffers. Solitude beats being taken advantage of, every time.