The latter. But I think it's hard to argue with "let consenting adults do whatever they want with each other". The gay thing specifically is not important to me

The latter. But I think it's hard to argue with "let consenting adults do whatever they want with each other". The gay thing specifically is not important to me for any reason other than I think people who have found love should have no barriers to expressing that love. Even though watching two guys do what they want to each other would probably make me vomit.