I've tried that for the first 5 years. But eventually I just spend all my time as a developer/therapist and my real job never gets done. Not to mention it is ut

I've tried that for the first 5 years. But eventually I just spend all my time as a developer/therapist and my real job never gets done. Not to mention it is utterly exhausting. It would be one thing if they vented and then got the job done, but I almost always end up having to clean up a huge mess.