I'm not sure having someone invested in determining 'cool' is valid in any way or if it even has any meaning or should be given any importance. But seems you a

I'm not sure having someone invested in determining 'cool' is valid in any way or if it even has any meaning or should be given any importance. But seems you attribute a value to that, so subjectivly that will work for you and it will provide a self rewarding feeling of belonging. Look at it in a broader way and we are back to square one, each person gets to pick what the person wants and likes, no matter how influenceable one is. It's just that. Lets not group this judge, Jobs and the Fonz for reinforcement conditioning.