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And why would that doubt be gnawing at them for the rest of their life? Do you think it is possible that all the rah-rah "moving abroad is great" messaging coul

• yen223 2y ago
  The doubt comes from not knowing. Not knowing if a different life choice 20 years ago would have made them happier now, because they never tried. If they gave it a go and it didn't work out, then they know, and they would have plenty of time to course-correct. There wouldn't be any doubt.
  • david-gpu 2y ago
    > and they would have plenty of time to course-correct Not in the common scenario where they have married and had children abroad. I do know of some people who left their country for 10+ years and returned. In all cases they had married somebody of the same nationality as theirs and moved while the children were still too young to care. In other words, the people who can easily return typically do so. Those who don't return often want but can't for one reason or another (usually their new family).