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> It was miserable for me. Social skills never came naturally, I was isolated and bullied, and bored to death in classes. At the end of my childhood the results
by aleph_minus_one 2y ago
> It was miserable for me. Social skills never came naturally, I was isolated and bullied, and bored to death in classes. At the end of my childhood the results were trauma and bad grades.
Concerning the social skills argument: the only "social skill" that school teaches is becoming capable of hating other people so much that you deep from your heart wish them to be dead.
- aklemm 2y agoHerding kids of all the same age into daily hours of structured instruction is an anti-socialization, I'm sure of it.
- eitally 2y agoPerhaps for a small segment of the school-going population but this is not universal and you know it.
- aleph_minus_one 2y ago> Perhaps for a small segment of the school-going population but this is not universal and you know it. Indeed: there exist perpetrators and victims (or specifically for bullying: the bullies and the bullied ones). And there exist people who are simply "blind" to what happens around them.
- DiggyJohnson 2y agoCmon. There is everything to learn in school in regards to socialization, perhaps besides cross cohort-socialization.