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It really seems you have not seen the way kids bully each other these days. Example: two kids were friends a year ago shared a lot of personal thoughts with eac
by khazhoux 2y ago
It really seems you have not seen the way kids bully each other these days. Example: two kids were friends a year ago shared a lot of personal thoughts with each other. Now guess what? That was all recorded, because it was all in chat. Fast-forward a year later and one kid absolutely humiliates the other by posting the private chats in a group setting. How the hell could that have ever happened in the past?
Same with recording silly videos or taking photos of themselves to share with friends. When the relationship turns sour, that is raw material to humiliate the other.
- thaumasiotes 2y ago> Fast-forward a year later and one kid absolutely humiliates the other by posting the private chats in a group setting. How the hell could that have ever happened in the past? Simple; the one kid tells everyone what the other kid said.
- ben_w 2y agoHuman memory isn't photographic. Memories are biased such that we mostly don't remember the bad things our friends have said, we mainly remember the good. And the inverse for our enemies. When you change from one to the other, what didn't pass into long term memory can't just come back.
- khazhoux 2y agoNot the same at all. Yes, that is a form of bullying, but it’s not nearly the same as having their own words, shared in confidence, blasted out to their peer group. But honestly, I can see you are fully committed to the premise that “things are exactly the same now as before” and so this discussion is pointless.