there is nobody in my family on whose shoulder i can cry except my wife. the friends that i have where i can do that i all met through work. and yes, coworkers

there is nobody in my family on whose shoulder i can cry except my wife. the friends that i have where i can do that i all met through work. and yes, coworkers have helped me move too. "we are a family" is still a warning sign though. it could mean that the team is a tight knit group that a newcomer will have difficulty to break into, especially an introvert. or it could mean certain expectations towards each other that i would not understand or be comfortable with because i have not experienced any family like that so instead of rejecting the idea i would ask some questions to find out what they mean by that.