> not working > (not) stressing about work > instead spending it with family and raising your kid ... while someone else goes to work Right. 'Spending time'

> not working > (not) stressing about work > instead spending it with family and raising your kid ... while someone else goes to work Right. 'Spending time' with your family and kid is not work and is completely stress free. Another reason women do not want to become stay-at-home wives/mothers, no one respects you or the work you (pretend to) do .