I would like to recommend this book on the issue : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stigma:_Notes_on_the_Management_of_Spoiled_Identity https://en.wikipedia.org/w

I would like to recommend this book on the issue : https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stigma:_Notes_on_the_Management_of_Spoiled_Identity https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stigma:_Notes_on_the_Managemen... It shows quite well the tension between normality and the need for a community IIRC