People are bad at modeling behavior they're unfamiliar with. People who have never had any problems with executive dysfunction think you just don't want to if y

People are bad at modeling behavior they're unfamiliar with. People who have never had any problems with executive dysfunction think you just don't want to if you say you're having trouble doing XYZ and you don't have some visible injury because for them, there's never been any disconnect between "deciding to do it" and "doing it", so they think you're making shit up. People who have never had significant physical impediments can't imagine "just push through it" being a thing that you're doing constantly so pushing further is going to fuck you up for a week or two, and so on.