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Although I'm still highly motivated and that doesn't feel like it's changed, at some point in my life I just sort of... ran out of the ability to grind through

by Eliezer 18y ago

Although I'm still highly motivated and that doesn't feel like it's changed, at some point in my life I just sort of... ran out of the ability to grind through with a low standard of living. Not at exactly 27, more like 25, but close enough. I have friends who are the same age and can still do this, which is embarrassing and makes me feel like a horrible selfish person. I might be able to do it in a genuine emergency, it's just that living a low lifestyle feels like a much larger imposition and a much huger mental drain than it did at say age 22. I wonder if it's hardwired brain change, or was it something more cognitive - something I thought? YCers beware, your ability to run on ramen may be an age-limited resource, use it while you're young.

nlwhittemore 18y ago
I wouldn't feel bad. I'm only 24 but this is the way I feel about certain types of travel. I've spent the last 6 years going at the drop of a hat to everywhere from Syria to Uganda to where ever to work on projects and am getting close to the edge, for sure. Its very natural
tptacek 18y ago
You feel that way because you're worth more than a couple cups of ramen. Nobody wants to be a sucker.
- pg 18y ago
  In my experience they're not related. Robert Morris and I both retained the ability to live like grad students till well into our thirties. I think women may be a factor. Also exposure to living well. But above all, perhaps, fatigue.
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  - Eliezer 18y ago
    Why yes, I did run out of ability to run on ramen around the same time I got my first girlfriend - but the causation of the correlation was reversed, that is, I ran out of ability to live without a girlfriend, which up until that point I'd been doing effortlessly.
cmos 18y ago
It's not easy. I did it for 7 years out of college, slowly raising my salary from minimum wage to not much above minimum wage. Overall my standard of living wasn't horrible though, I had an old used car, lived in an old mansion with 5 friends ($1500 a month, heat included!), and was in a 'southwest airlines' city so the cost of living was quite cheap. (i.e. A slice of pizza and a soda was $1) Difficult? At times Amazing experience? You betcha

by Eliezer 18y ago

nlwhittemore 18y ago

I wouldn't feel bad. I'm only 24 but this is the way I feel about certain types of travel. I've spent the last 6 years going at the drop of a hat to everywhere from Syria to Uganda to where ever to work on projects and am getting close to the edge, for sure. Its very natural

tptacek 18y ago

You feel that way because you're worth more than a couple cups of ramen. Nobody wants to be a sucker.

pg 18y ago
In my experience they're not related. Robert Morris and I both retained the ability to live like grad students till well into our thirties. I think women may be a factor. Also exposure to living well. But above all, perhaps, fatigue.
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- Eliezer 18y ago
  Why yes, I did run out of ability to run on ramen around the same time I got my first girlfriend - but the causation of the correlation was reversed, that is, I ran out of ability to live without a girlfriend, which up until that point I'd been doing effortlessly.

cmos 18y ago

It's not easy. I did it for 7 years out of college, slowly raising my salary from minimum wage to not much above minimum wage. Overall my standard of living wasn't horrible though, I had an old used car, lived in an old mansion with 5 friends ($1500 a month, heat included!), and was in a 'southwest airlines' city so the cost of living was quite cheap. (i.e. A slice of pizza and a soda was $1) Difficult? At times Amazing experience? You betcha