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That's what I needed, literally the algorithm for approaching human beings. I should have this written in Lua and loaded to my brain along with "How to behave o

• 4ggr0 2y ago
  > How to be happy funerals do have their protocols grouped by culture, but i think that there's unfortunately no recipe or protocol for how to be happy. to me it seems like that's one of the holy grails for humanity. maybe you have to reframe this problem. not "how to be happy" and rather, "what exactly is happiness and should the goal be for it to be a constant state?".
• Carlseymanh 2y ago
  In my opinion happiness is not a goal but a state subject to change. I stopped looking for happiness and started to train contentness. Being satisfied with something less than optimal will make you feel much better over time. Sometimes things will go sideways independently of your control. You can be all stoic about that and pretend it doesn't faze you; in my experience it's better to find and focus on the little things that make life more bearable, like preparing a hot meal after a shitty day instead of crashing on the sofa and conteplate the injustice of life.