> Anyone have any tips that worked for getting over this hurdle? This might give you something to work with: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42102050 http

> Anyone have any tips that worked for getting over this hurdle? This might give you something to work with: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42102050 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=42102050. Maybe you're confusing natural and reasonable behaviour with self-sabotage? They look the same from some perspectives (such as perfectionism and people-pleasing).