The American dream is (or was?) to own a mansion in the suburbs, living in isolation. I wonder whether the people living in this environment change their Americ

The American dream is (or was?) to own a mansion in the suburbs, living in isolation. I wonder whether the people living in this environment change their American-dream target to something more communal. Maybe some hope to find it at work, but that is tough given all of the constraints at work (e.g., worrying about ranking and rating with your peers). But if you don't get access to social and human capital in real life, you can at least find it here or on reddit.