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This is an idea that is promoted by the media. Occasionally it is true. After eight years of working in the military, it only took two years before I never he
by edwbuck 2y ago
This is an idea that is promoted by the media. Occasionally it is true.
After eight years of working in the military, it only took two years before I never heard from another member of my unit. Within the first three months of leaving, only one person kept in touch (for the two years). When they moved out-of-state, I never heard from them either.
Don't underestimate the perception of what happens with what is likely to happen. I don't think it differs much between "the shop" and "the office" having worked in both. How many people do you talk to on a weekly basis from your last company?
- clown_strike 2y agoEight years isn't a lot in the grand scheme of things. The stereotypical band-of-brothers stuff only sets in when your clique has been enlisted long enough to see combat, lose people, and retire into civilian life together. Trauma bonding. That's 20-25 years of service IIRC, longer than most marriages. They have enough trust to go in on business or investments together. After that long it's a relationship of codependency. Maybe people's ability to bond is just fucked these days, but two tours of duty has never really been enough to forge those sorts of bonds. Your experience sounds about right.
- ab5tract 2y ago20-25 years is a “stereotypical” duration for non-com soldiers? That sounds very far-fetched to me.