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> because the parental neglect let them develop a sense of independence. Parental neglect is an incredibly strong (and I'd argue biased) word to use here if we
by superfrank 2y ago
> because the parental neglect let them develop a sense of independence.
Parental neglect is an incredibly strong (and I'd argue biased) word to use here if we're using the articles definition of a latch key kid.
The article says "3.5 million latchkey kids in the U.S., or seven per cent of those between the ages of 5 and 13".
There's a massive difference between a 5 year old being home alone for a few hours each day and a teenager being home alone for a few hours. Even more so if, like it says in the article, there's support systems in place (like a neighbor that can be contacted in case of an emergency) and an established pattern (the kid isn't just unexpectedly home alone).
An 8 year old unexpectedly left home alone for an unknown amount of time without any support system could absolutely be called neglect (although it makes a great Christmas movie), but a 16 year old in an empty house from 2:30-5 every day with a full fridge and friendly neighbors next door is completely reasonable and (IMO) a healthy way to let them develop independence.
- margalabargala 2y agoIt's a term used by this very article, opening the second paragraph. > This is a by-now standard Gen X coping mechanism: treating childhood neglect – in this case, taking care of ourselves after school – as a matter of significant pride, part of our generational identity.
- superfrank 2y agoThat's fair. I missed that when I read it. I still stand by my point, but now it should be more directed at the author of the article and not the comment I replied to
- Suppafly 2y agoWhat's funny is that I didn't even read the article, it's prima facie parental neglect.
- Suppafly 2y agoWhy are you mentioning 16 year olds when that's not really included in the definition? Latchkey is when grade school aged kids are left alone during the gap between when school ends and parents return from work, sometimes hours later. Older teenagers are basically allowed to be home alone indefinitely.