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The saddest I've ever been in my life was when my dog died. I take it you've never lost a child? Because I've lost both and sad as it was, losing a dog doesn'
by alistairSH 2y ago
The saddest I've ever been in my life was when my dog died.
I take it you've never lost a child? Because I've lost both and sad as it was, losing a dog doesn't even come close. Losing the dog was sad, but I got over it and eventually adopted another pup. Losing the child was so unimaginably awful that I struggle to find the words...
Police knocking on my door at 2am to tell me.
Calling my wife at 2:30am to tell her (she was away on business).
Waiting for her to find a flight home.
The funeral.
Dealing with the estate.
Waking up every few weeks feeling like it was all a nightmare, only to realize it was not.
It's fucking awful.
- wiseowise 2y agoI’m sorry about you child, but it doesn’t mean that we have to belittle someone’s grief because you’ve had it worse.