With support nets in place, it can feel like "superpower". Once those fall apart, it feels like "disorder". By "support nets" I mean anything around you that's

With support nets in place, it can feel like "superpower". Once those fall apart, it feels like "disorder". By "support nets" I mean anything around you that's preselected to amplify your strengths rather than weaknesses. A successful person will have accrued those over many years - a job with enough novelty, profitable interests, an understanding partner, self-regulation routines, tons of "life hacks" around... but sometimes those fall apart and reveal the real difficulty. And, it turns out, you may not have as much time for rebuilding them available as an adult as you did growing up.