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I’ve seen this happen a number of ways. Some jobs I’ve worked for, everyone’s ears perk up when they hear that and several people will curious. I’ve worked plac
by kayodelycaon 2y ago
I’ve seen this happen a number of ways. Some jobs I’ve worked for, everyone’s ears perk up when they hear that and several people will curious. I’ve worked places where people’s egos were in the way of basic good sense. I’ve seen well intentioned people who were just flat out abrasive.
I have no idea which situations you’re finding yourself in. It may help to sit back and see if you could word things different. I have gotten better communicating by asking the people I’m working with if there was a better way I could have said something. Some managers I’ve had had good advice. (I’ve also gotten myself dragged into their office for said advice.)
I have no idea how you approached it, but you could let them decide if they want your advice and have specific examples on how things went wrong if they do. “Hey, I noticed you’re working on this. We’ve had some problems in the past. If you have time, I can go into more detail.”
Then again you could just be working with assholes.
- 1a527dd5 2y agoI think some of the blame _definitely_ lies with me. No doubt. The only sure fire way I've found that won't cause offence is to offer up a slack call/huddle so that they can hear my tone. I have been failing quite successfully at communicating my tone over text for some time now, so I confess that and admit it upfront.