If you say ‘should not be my problem’, then I’d agree since ‘Should’ usually means ‘I wish’. The issue is that, like you note, it’s easy to ‘other’ people wit

If you say ‘should not be my problem’, then I’d agree since ‘Should’ usually means ‘I wish’. The issue is that, like you note, it’s easy to ‘other’ people with disabilities and attack them, especially visible disabilities. So then other people’s perceptions become a real problem for them, yes?