Regarding being topless, I realized the same. In Canada, BC, all women are allowed to be topless. We had a huge issue at the homeowner association I'm part of

Regarding being topless, I realized the same. In Canada, BC, all women are allowed to be topless. We had a huge issue at the homeowner association I'm part of because of the swimsuit of a man showing the shape of their genitalia (not in a sexualized wa) "more than usual", whatever that means. To which I responded that if a woman will show up topless, what are you going to do? And then after some research, I discovered that for gender equality in bc, women can go topless. I'd like to think I'm progressive on that stuff, but I'm embarrassed watching sex scenes with family, pretty sure this has to be due to the behavior of my parents with me about it. And yet, it bothers me being embarrassed, I wish I could fix the brainwashing, but emotions are not rational.