Also, every online community has a different set of standards (not to mention a different number of trolls). What flies on HN might not on NextDoor, and vice-ve

Also, every online community has a different set of standards (not to mention a different number of trolls). What flies on HN might not on NextDoor, and vice-versa. Maybe OP can point us to online forums where they've posted, and/or provide some examples of conversations where they've been misunderstood?