Your two groups aren't mutually exclusionary. It's possible to have a legitimate diagnosis and also to abuse that diagnosis to attempt to excuse anti-social be

Your two groups aren't mutually exclusionary. It's possible to have a legitimate diagnosis and also to abuse that diagnosis to attempt to excuse anti-social behavior. I point this out because at the end of the day a person's diagnosis is for them-- hopefully it helps them get the support they need to have a more successful life. For the rest of us we just need to deal with behavior we will or won't accept. We should try to afford people some tolerance, diagnosis or not. But ultimately if someone is unwilling or unable to behave in an acceptable way then we won't continue interacting with them. This can happen via a venue rejecting misbehaving participants, or it can happen by behaving participants rejecting a venue that has failed to regulate the conduct of its other participants.