Yes I have evidence it won't work: the only person who has control over that individual's behavior and beliefs is that person themselves. You can't change one

Yes I have evidence it won't work: the only person who has control over that individual's behavior and beliefs is that person themselves. You can't change one group's behavior by focusing exclusively on a different group. As for your vapid White Knight accusation, I'm not speaking up for women, I'm speaking up for myself against your illogical assertions. Lack of reason offends me. Women are welcome to do whatever they want and they certainly don't need you telling them they are Doing It Wrong. I believe women should be welcome to highlight their gender or not, because in neither case does their behavior directly hurt me so it's none of my business or yours. I do think men demanding that they do one or the other are way out of line, though, and people taking that as an excuse for why they ignore their existence are just acting scummy. The obvious solution is for men to stop assuming everyone is male. That, in fact, has nothing to do with women at all and isn't their problem to solve.