> Long-term stability comes from building trust over time and avoiding the emotional toll of repeated breakups. I see the idea, but I turbo-fucked those relat

> Long-term stability comes from building trust over time and avoiding the emotional toll of repeated breakups. I see the idea, but I turbo-fucked those relationships because I didn't understand how to communicate. It took me 2-3 LTRs to get a handle both on what I wanted, how to explain my needs/flaws/etc, and how to make space for somebody elses yada yada. I admire people who managed to get through that stuff first time, but i feel like they've got to be the exception?