What about the "hey, marriage is just not for everybody" position? I did not get married until my very late 30's, having spend enough time with my partner to ha

What about the "hey, marriage is just not for everybody" position? I did not get married until my very late 30's, having spend enough time with my partner to have built something worth keeping, but at least two of my friends have been married so many times that it seems like an occasional hobby they indulge in. The idea works for some people, but not all, and that's just fine. The arguments you listed all assume a one-size-fits-all solution, which I suppose is why they are circular and absurd.