I would say the ability to have a chance to be there and try to support them is the biggest overlooked aspect of life there is i also have children one son 13 a

I would say the ability to have a chance to be there and try to support them is the biggest overlooked aspect of life there is i also have children one son 13 and a baby boy on the way being incarcerated again and not just being able to be there is the biggest thing i would give anything and i know my sons would to just to have the chance to be there for them so for me i try to jsut keep communication lines open as best asi can and send what money i can to him its not the same but im obligated to do what i can when i can stay possitive as for "her" focus on herself and the children exclusively no one else matters times get lonely but one she has a hood foundation the right partner will come around