I've also seen attempts at using someones mistake with misgendering someone on accident be used to start what amounts to a witchhunt in various private communit

I've also seen attempts at using someones mistake with misgendering someone on accident be used to start what amounts to a witchhunt in various private communities. So I really don't like it when a CoC assumed maliciousness by default, which a lot of them are. I am no longer part of most of those communities, for both related and unrelated reasons.