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I'm trans and the GNU Communication Guidelines feel way more empathetic to me than CoC-like documents. > gives cover for transphobes to intentionally misgender
by gr4vityWall 2y ago
I'm trans and the GNU Communication Guidelines feel way more empathetic to me than CoC-like documents.
> gives cover for transphobes to intentionally misgender trans people
It also gives cover to people who prefer to always use gender neutral pronouns.
If a transphobe is acting on their views on gender to bully people, I'd rather deal with them on a case-by-base basis, while being empathetic to everyone else who might have meant to harm.
BTW, I've met RMS in person a few years ago, and exchange emails with him every once in a while. I've found him to be very fun, and not hard to deal with if you're used to hanging out with neurodivergent people.
- Akronymus 2y agoI've also seen attempts at using someones mistake with misgendering someone on accident be used to start what amounts to a witchhunt in various private communities. So I really don't like it when a CoC assumed maliciousness by default, which a lot of them are. I am no longer part of most of those communities, for both related and unrelated reasons.
- contrapunctus 2y agoITYM "meant _no_ harm"
- gr4vityWall 2y agoyou're correct, my bad. :)