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It's just not true. For a start, pink men's clothes have been around for a good while now. Also if you thought your clothing colour choice was affecting your ab
by jemmyw 2y ago
It's just not true. For a start, pink men's clothes have been around for a good while now. Also if you thought your clothing colour choice was affecting your ability to date just wear another colour, talk about an easy change.
I've never been a "strong" man, physically or behaviourally. Bit of a joker sometimes, but mostly quiet, somewhat emotional. It never caused an issue. Of course, some women won't be attracted to that personality type, but then that'll be true in all directions.
I don't know, maybe it's the men and women who use the dating apps? Or maybe the problem is something else that you're doing?
- M95D 2y agoI'm married now, but I remember very well what girls/women were looking for 15-20 years ago.
- komali2 2y agoRight, and like the article says, that's at least partially a patriarchal society drilling into them what "a real man" should look like and also that they should only date such men. But even 40 years ago counter cultural hippies were doing fine. Maybe there was a dry spell of that in the 90s but certainly modern women are open to "nontraditional" men, especially once you look outside the west. E.g. what a westerner would consider "effeminate" is usually considered attractive in men in South Korea. In the west there's certainly a large portion of women that find "nontraditional" men attractive.