> social shaming that cut so deep that the message you wrote is still burned verbatim into their memory after all these years Oh my, this reminded me how some

> social shaming that cut so deep that the message you wrote is still burned verbatim into their memory after all these years Oh my, this reminded me how some 20 years ago I was a high school kid and dared to install a more nerdy Linux distro (which I won't name here) on my home computer. After some big upgrade, the system stopped booting, and when in panic I asked for help at the official forum, I got responses that were shaming me for blindly copying commands from their official website without consulting some README files. That's how I switched to Debian and never looked back.