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Can't speak for anyone else of course, but before kids a day with no obligations was mostly just a nice day. With kids it is so much more significant. My colle
by kaffekaka 2y ago
Can't speak for anyone else of course, but before kids a day with no obligations was mostly just a nice day. With kids it is so much more significant.
My colleagues that don't have kids, they waste their time. Not by doing nothing - that would be awesome - but by creating problems for themselves that end up taking their spare time. It is like they believe they will always have empty days to spare.
- m463 2y agoSounds like "youth is wasted on the young" :) You know your perspective also works in reverse. When I was young I wanted time away from my parents. Now that they're gone, I would love to spend even 5 minutes with them. balance is a never ending struggle.
- paulcole 2y ago> My colleagues that don't have kids, they waste their time If I told you, “Having kids is a waste of your time” you’d be 100% sure that I’m wrong. And I might be. I might not be. All depends on perspective. But there you sit confidently making a judgement about someone else’s time just like I did with you.