Do people not have courtesy and decorum anymore??? I won’t give up my phone because I’m not stupid enough to take it out during a ceremony. I’ve been to severa

Do people not have courtesy and decorum anymore??? I won’t give up my phone because I’m not stupid enough to take it out during a ceremony. I’ve been to several wedding ceremonies of somewhat large size where no one took their phones out, and certainly not for photos. Did trust in society hit a new low while I wasn’t looking?