> I'm just merely stating an observation that people quickly move on, leaving you alone with your grief. It might be cultural, but for many it wouldn't be help

> I'm just merely stating an observation that people quickly move on, leaving you alone with your grief. It might be cultural, but for many it wouldn't be helping to be left dwelling in grief alone by themselves. Pushing them to get to work and get back on their usual routine is not usually a bad thing, it depends on the people and their environment of course (e.g. I'd assuming their work isn't abusive and their coworkers are considerate) For those who really need it, getting left alone can also be a blessing...I'd think those one will push through to get weeks off and do what they need to get over it, but it's pretty hard to generalize.