i don't think going WHOOSH as he hit send qualifies it argument as a straw man. Irrelevant at worst. Tangent at best. What if he had just decided to call you a

i don't think going WHOOSH as he hit send qualifies it argument as a straw man. Irrelevant at worst. Tangent at best. What if he had just decided to call you an old bag. Would that be a strawman? It's not implying that you presented not being a bag as an argument.